If you’re lucky enough to have a kid-free night or two, planning an escape to one of the romantic hotels in NJ is a must. And with chic boutique styles, cozy inns, and elegant bed and breakfasts, it’s an easy (and close) getaway during a mid-week night or entire weekend. Scroll down for our picks for the most romantic hotels in NJ for a couple’s getaway (a gift certificate to be redeemed at a later date is always a good idea), and be sure to check out our guide to the luxurious adult-only hotels for more ideas on where to spend couple time. (featured photo credit: istock/MonicaNinker)

Relax And Unwind At These Romantic Hotels In NJ

Asbury Ocean Club Hotel
At this luxe seaside escape, you’ll feel like you jetted away to somewhere amazing on the other side of the world. But no, you just traveled down the Garden State to paradise. With an infinity pool that faces the ocean, an all-glass dining and lounge space that looks like it’s floating on water, gorgeous suite or loft accommodations, and a spa with sea-inspired treatments, you can’t help but be wowed by this stunning space, listed as one of the top hotels in New Jersey in the Michelin Guide. 
Rates starting at $357 a night
1101 Ocean Avenue, Asbury Park, NJ 07712

Chateau Inn & Suites
Take a trip down the parkway to beautiful Spring Lake, where the Chateau Inn attracts honeymooners and couples. Spend time in the gracious lobby, which features elegant furnishings, or hang out in the newly appointed posh rooms, which range from cozy to spacious. For a real treat, opt for a parlor-size room on the second floor, which offers views of the park, 10-foot tin ceilings, a flat-screen TV, a wet bar, and a shower/tub combo in a luxe, marble-appointed bathroom. 
Rates start at $129 a night
500 Warren Avenue, Spring Lake, NJ 07762

Crystal Springs Grande Cascade Lodge 
If you’re a couple who likes to stay active, this Adirondack-style lodge with spectacular Kittatinny Mountain views will keep you busy from the moment you check in. Play a round of golf at one of 6 championship golf courses or work on your game at the on-site academy. Squeeze in some basketball, pickleball, or personal training before heading to the biosphere pool complex with a tropical aquarium and a vortex pool. For warm-weather dining, eat al fresco on the Chef’s Garden patio, where you can indulge in dishes just picked from the neighboring garden, and wine connoisseurs will appreciate the world-renowned wine cellar. 
Rates start at $509
3 Wild Turkey Way, Hamburg, NJ 07419

Ocean Casino Resort
This lively and stunning resort fits the bill for couples who like their romance with a side of excitement. After you check into your well-appointed room with panoramic views of the beach and Atlantic, you can head down to the action. Dine at one of the elegant restaurants, all with stunning windows that put you in prime view for sunset— Amada with a tapas-style menu; Linguini by the Sea for fresh Italian options; or Ocean Steak for a steakhouse experience—before stopping by the tables for a rousing night of casino games. Late night, catch live music at Nola’s Bar & Lounge, or get down at the HQ2 two-level nightclub. And did we mention they have a 40,000-square-foot spa with a soothing Himalayan Salt Cave? Perfect for vegging out the next day. 
Rates start at $79 a night.
500 Boardwalk, Atlantic City, NJ 08401

Pendry Natrir 
Imagine 500 rolling acres, grand rooms that feel like an English castle, and a world-class spa—no, you’re not dreaming, it’s real at the Pendry Natirar, one of the most romantic hotels in NJ. The mansion-like hotel gives a bit of the English countryside with the essence of Morocco (the King of Morocco once owned the historic property). Spend your day indulging in luxury treatments at the marble spa, relaxing in a salt room, and walking the trails connected to the property, then cozying up with a champagne cocktail by the fire from Ladd’s Tavern, the elevated bar-style restaurant off the main lobby. And for a romantic dinner worthy of a fairytale, book a table at the onsite Ninety Acres, with its posh interiors and fine dining experience with chef-driven menus inspired by and directly sourced from their sustainable farm.  
Rates starting at $860
400 Natirar Drive, Peapack-Gladstone, NJ 07977

The Bernards Inn
Busy area parents love this beautifully appointed Inn in Bernardsville for a one-night staycation away from the kids. Each stately and elegant room at the Inn is named after a Somerset County historic estate, providing a unique story into the past of this century-old hotel. And dining in the Red Horse Tavern from renowned chef David Burke is a must, where a night of gourmet cuisine, sexy cocktails, and heavenly desserts sets the scene for romance. 
Rates start at $180 a night 
27 Mine Brook Road, Bernardsville, NJ 07924

The George
Owned by husband and wife Steven Plokfer and Bobbi Brown (yup, the makeup maven behind her eponymous line and Jones Road), The George feels like you landed in a chic country house in Great Britain. Originally built in 1902 as a private residence for Charles Van Vleck, the hotel has a modern aesthetic with historic bones—it boasts 31 uniquely decorated rooms, each with a distinct, customized feel (and featured in Architectural Digest and Vogue). Cozy up to the roaring fire with a glass of wine during happy hour in the Library, sweat on a Peloton at the onsite gym, or snuggle up in the room outfitted with brand partners like Caspar and Nespresso. 
Rates start at $379 a night 
37 North Mountain Avenue, Montclair, NJ 07042 

The Peacock Inn 
Dating back to the 1700s, The Peacock Inn has many historical touchstones—it was once a meeting place for the members of the original colonies, operated as a Prohibition-era speakeasy, and hosted noteworthy guests, including Albert Einstein. The Inn has undergone a sophisticated upgrade since those days, with luxury amenities such as rain showers, heated bathroom floors, and flat-screen TVs. The elegant restaurant features creative farm-to-table cuisine from nearby farms and purveyors. 
Rates start at $224 a night 
20 Bayard Lane, Princeton, NJ 08540

The Reeds at Shelter Haven 
Want to hear the sounds of the waves and smell the salt air any time of year? Head to the quaint town of Stone Harbor and check into The Reeds, a year-round luxury boutique hotel. Rooms and suites are filled with plush furnishings that ooze relaxation and are decorated in soothing whites, blues, and neutrals. Four restaurants operated by the Reeds include the sleek Water Star Grille at the hotel with stunning views and seafood towers, and the casual Stone Harbor Pizza Pub nearby offering panoramic sunset views and gourmet slices.  And before you check out, spend some time at the Salt Spa, choosing a treatment from a menu of facials, massages, and manis and pedis. 
Rates start at $119 a night 
9601 Third Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247 

The Virginia Hotel and Cottages
Located in the heart of historic Cape May, this 24-room boutique hotel is adults-only, with access to the Sea Spa at Congress Hall (hello spa time). Only a block from the beach, The Virginia has been impeccably designed with an onsite, farm-to-table restaurant, The Ebbit Room, known for its romantic atmosphere and award-winning cuisine. The rooms have relaxed elegance with a stylish beachy palette—think crisp white bedding, soft blue fabrics, and coral accents—including bath amenities made from local Beach Plum Farms and a daily continental breakfast with freshly baked treats.
Rates start at $163 a night
25 Jackson Street, Cape May, NJ 08204

Woolverton Inn
Want to feel like you’ve hopped on a plane and escaped to a bucolic countryside? Head to Hunterdon County, where The Woolverton Inn is set on over 300 acres of gorgeous farmland, forest, and adorable sheep. Spend the weekend lounging by the fire in a cottage, dipping into one of the in-room whirlpool tubs for two, sitting on the patio, and enjoying the gourmet country breakfast served every morning. When it’s time for dinner, the charming towns of Lambertville and New Hope are nearby and offer lots of delicious options. 
Rates start at $299 a night, and add-on packages are available
6 Woolverton Road, Stockton, New Jersey 08559

Mohonk Mountain House 
Is there anything more romantic than spending the night in an iconic Victorian castle resort? While not technically in NJ, Mohonk Mountain House just over the NY/NJ border, is the kind of place that makes you feel like you went to Europe over the weekend. The castle is set within 40,000 acres of forest and overlooks a gorgeous lake is full of romantic, get lost in each other vibes. What’s more, it’s an all-inclusive destination with unique experiences (forest bathing, anyone) that make your stay memorable. Take a walk on one of the 85 miles of trails, dip into the lake or indoor pool, enjoy farm-to-table food, indulge in one of the relaxing spa services, or simply hang out by the fireplace and lounge on the balcony in your room.
Rates start at $731 per night and are all-inclusive, including meals, activities, and gratuity. 
1000 Mountain Rest Road, New Paltz, New York 12561

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